Recently did I get back on track by getting my job back after a long while. Even though I was rusty and worried (filled with trepidation), I knew that where the rubber met the road, I had to be ready. Thus, I shut down my fears and confronted the situation as best as I could. What should I have done to overcome this in the first place though?

 

By making light of the problem, I was not solving it either. Hence, the need to find a reasonable way to deal with the matter at hand as  effective as possible. Might, chalk up my absence from work to fear and neglect. Be that as it may, identifying the problem does not always help solving it. What does though?

 

There is such a term called "faulty corvallis", which are intense fears that develop as we grow up.

For instance social anxiety might be one of them, fear of failure could be another. However, there is something we had not tackled before. For most people, failure equals bad, but giving up is much worse. I experienced that first hand myself. There is no telling how much you can miss out on if you give up doing something so soon.

 

To close things out, I would say that I've almost all my life refuted people saying that you can learn something from failure. To me failure was something that could bring you to your knees. Was I dead wrong though. Had it not been for my failures, I would have not learn the things I know now. Even though I would have ended up better off without making some of those mistakes, were they so impactful that they helped anyway.