If you stumble upon a rock and bruise your knee, ice it yourself; most people will not care. Unfortunately, that is the way the world works. No matter how many motivational speeches or self-help books you watch or read. This world is a tough place to live in. Thus, if you do not take your chances, you are no one. Irrespective of what I have gone through, I do not consider myself to be a basket case. Nonetheless, am  I going to have to max out my skills so as to get at least one chance to succeed. Anyhow, without any more preamble, am I going to start with today´s topic.

 

Ever since I started writing, only one friend has commented on my blog so far. It is incredible how you feel you can trust only a few. You see, in order for me to stay in task, do I need motivation. Something I cannot get on a daily basis unfortunately. Besides, success works in conjunction with mental health. Hence, my occasional visits to the therapist so as to keep on the right track. Is it indeed impossible explicate a perfect state of happiness. Be that as it may, I personally believe that if you end up doing what you like for a living, things pick up eventually. Consequently, the need for parents and educators to incentivize their children to like a subject in particular.

 

I have always loved English for instance. Even so, I did not get to have good English teachers. Not to mention that I did not know why I had to study it that much. My family told me I had to learn it as an order. Albeit, they did not tell me why. You see, you must encourage children to like a subject. Otherwise they will not learn it properly. You cannot force a child to learn something if they have no idea why. Therein lies the failure of my next of kin. Regardless of the fact that I did get to learn English, I did it hard way. Do I get anything now by blaming my selfish relatives though?. No, I just have to go jogging or whatnot so as to liberate myself from stress.

 

My point is, you cannot let anything keep you down. You must find ways to get your confidence up no matter what. By no means should you let depression creep in any time you feel weak. What is more by veering off negative thoughts, you are making progress. Try for instance to shift your attention to a task you have to do or find something interesting to work on. Lastly, I would say that we must get used to standing up for ourselves. Not always  will we have a friend to bail us out each time we encounter a bully who gives us a shabby treatment.