Things are picking up. Nonetheless, there is still a long way to go. I still tend to hark back to how things could have been better in the past, Still and all, I do less frequently than before. Is it not easy for me to forget the hardships I had to endure in the past. Truth be told, I am the kind of person who stuffs his emotions until they explode. Thus, the need for me to make a considerable change in my behavior. Today, I am going to talk about something I think not only I, but some other folks lack too: Assertiveness...
Many a time have I clammed up after being insulted or whatnot due to my shyness. Despite the fact that I try to overcome it, it is not that easy though. After having been chafed under my families´ control for so many years, is it yet hard for me to become the person I want to be. Irrespective of my achievements, do I yet feel incomplete. Still, there are noteworthy goals I want to accomplish. Be that as it may, am I going to have to deal with my personality first. Hence, it is understandable that I am constantly apprehensive of the future owing to my past failures. Anyhow, did I need to get some mixed feelings off my chest. Therefore, I decided to write this post today. Now that I think about it, one of the things that could help me surmount my fears would be to tighten my relationships.
Ever since I came back from Canada, have I been holding grudges against different people. Hence, preventing myself from progressing on even further. I am not the kind of person who agrees with the philosophy of South Americans. whom believe that supporting their children until they are thirty is a common thing. Conversely, in the first world things are different. For instance, it is extremely normal for an American child to start out working when they are 16. Things are beginning to change though. Regardless, of the limitations of underdeveloped countries, they are trying to mimic the Anglo-Saxon concept more than ever. Even so, it is going to take longer for countries such as Peru to get used to a civilized life-style. You may be asking why on earth I got off on a tangent. Let me explain, for people whose personalities are not so tough, it is harder to survive in an uncivilized city. Therefore, my reason for bringing up some own take on how the third world functions nowadays. Issues such as public transport are yet to be sorted out in countries such as Peru and Bolivia. Not to mention that the lack of libraries and educational resources on this part of the globe makes it even more difficult for aspiring students to succeed.
Lastly, I would say as follows: The ones who have been lucky enough to succeed in this parts despite their humble beginnings, are those who have toughened up from an early age. Hence, their ability to muster the courage to overcome almost any sort of obstacles. From being able to bear people being irate with them at work to God knows what else. In order to fulfill your goals, you have to make lots of sacrifices. Notwithstanding, by not letting you closed ones to shove their beliefs down your throat your making a huge progress. For instance, building up routines and finding ways to jump-start each one of your days are relevant factors for success. Finding what makes you tick can keep you going for hours non-stop. If your still on the looking such as myself, try to ascertain ways to keep yourself motivated every day. Remember: ¨A little of what you fancy, does you good¨
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