Sometimes, it`s difficult to fight back bullies of society. The vexatious attitude some turds have towards others. In fact, dissing these jerks doesn`t escape my mind as a possibility. Though, being assertive does not mean being rude. Well maybe a little. Putting up a vacuous expression and answering back might do the trick. I mean it seems right on occasion. To mouth off at people sure takes a load off your mind. Nonetheless, you can find other ways to channel your aggression into something else. Such as sports and other leisure pastimes. A blitz of activity may be able to get rid of any sort of anger. Life could get as hard as being jilted by your fiancé the day before getting married. Notwithstanding, one can get over almost everything. Feeling a woozy after thinking about complicated stuff is possible. Deconstructing every bad thing that happens to is not always good though. Nothing, in excess is positive. Learning to curb your temper sure is good. Although, loitering around wouldn`t help at all. Standing up to an injustice should be done always. Being a bystander to a crime means conniving in an unfair act. Disappointment is right around the corner. You can go gaga over your first crush at school and find of your love is unrequited the same day. Besides, not everyone has a sturdy manner. Some may even take time to recover from those wounds caused by fate. Of course finding your soul mate seems as hard as becoming the kingpin of a big company.  Getting stuff overnight ain`t possible. Moreover, masquerading yourself as somebody else to achieve anything isn`t wise either. Instead of being insecure, try boosting your own skills. To mack up a bimbo and go further with them is a clear example of what judging by looks means. Even if it does not seem you`re gonna get something, things could go your way. Therefore, all the experience you get throughout life should be your making. In order for your work to have the making of a master piece, you gotta strive for the best. You might as well get under way on your preparations to reach the top. The first thing you have to do to escalate that first step is ridding that funk that bothers you. As I explained earlier, through catharsis, one can expel negative emotions. Moreover, manifesting your feelings doesn`t have to be easy all the time. However, you must do it anyway. Paint out those old scars with a layer of hope and start over. Kill off feelings of revenge. Unless of course it`s an extreme case. Remember that answers to problems are not gotten by scrabbling in your bag. Mind work should be put into good use to solve any conundrum. Things must be done with care if you want results. I bet you don`t want your coffee to be sloshed into your mug every morning. In the same way you should mind about your work. Avoid things like painting your skills in a job interview with a broad brush. If you love what you do, then show your future employer how much you do. Retest your tactics to have better outcomes in the future. You lips will twitch with amusement when you discover what you`re capable of.